First: The word first can have so much meaning towards it. Whether it’s first impressions, first kiss, or a first date. You may not be anyone’s first, and they may not be yours as well. Keep in mind that you cannot always be simply at the top. Being first isn’t always necessarily a good thing. Make sure you know what priorities to put first and who comes first; which is ultimately you. You cannot always put others before yourself. There’s much more to life than being number one.
Outer: Appearance is usually the first thing people notice about you. Outer features- from a smile to their eyes or what they’re wearing. Many people aren’t satisfied with the way they look. And it isn’t always about how you look, but the way you present yourself. Even when times are rough and you’re breaking down on the inside sometimes you have to stay tough. You have to stay strong and keep pushing forward.
Inner: Nobody ever knows exactly what you’re going through. People are too quick to judge so don’t let that get to you. They most likely don’t even know you. There’s so much more to a person than what they appear to be. When you really get to know someone you start to find out what they’re truly about. And true strength comes within yourself. So if anyone has anything to say or is against you; just remember we’re all fighting a war and countless battles on the inside. Keep your composure and carry on. You don’t need to waste your time on people who will only try to bring you down.
Last: Nothing lasts forever. Everything that comes together falls apart. Learn to appreciate- from the things you possess, people around you and everything else. And if you have anything worth fighting for make sure to cherish it. As time goes by, you’ll eventually be entirely on your own and you’re only going to be left with just memories. Enjoy the time you’re on this planet while you are here. Make it last and worthwhile because sometimes you only get one chance.
When text messages back & forth turn into slow replies,
late night conversations turn into going straight to bed,
make out sessions turn into tap kisses only,
holding hands turn into one person walking ahead,
long hugs turn into quick hugs,
calling each other nicknames turn into real names,
that’s when somebody’s drifting.
That’s retarded. Nobody really does all of those things forever, eventually things change because people change. If you can’t accept that fact, then you’re the one that’s drifting away from the other person.
When you’ve been together for a long time, you don’t need to do all of those things on that stupid list, it’s called being comfortable with your significant other. Shit like this gives little girls “hope” and bullshit that one day they’re going to find some guy who is going to do all of that forever, when in reality, they aren’t.. not after they either 1. get what they want 2. pass the honeymoon stage or 3. are comfortable enough with you to be themselves and not front anymore.
Tedeezy, you my friend, are the absolutely definition of a fucking tool. Thanks for brainwashing 3/4th the female community on Tumblr, and for the girls, you guys are idiots for reblogging this and agreeing.
“There’s nothing I really wanted to do in life that I wasn’t able to get good at. That’s my skill. I’m not really specifically talented at anything except for the ability to learn. That’s what I do. That’s what I’m here for.”—Kanye West (via jfkennedy)